Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:08:38.959Z#
Here’s a sampling of what Aella, a key organizer of Slutcon and a fixture of the rationalist/AI safety social scene, has said previously on Twitter about rape, teenagers and consent, and power imbalances in sexual situations:
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:16:35.644Z#
don’t like that about cat-calling! also she claims the “sister on only fans” thing was a prank but like, that’s a weird prank, dude
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:26:41.939Z#
More detailed allegations from this recent Reddit thread about consensual non-consent sex events held by certain people in the aforementioned Silicon Valley AI safety social circles:
www.reddit.com/r/SFbitchesw...
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:28:19.873Z#
This is weird stuff, man! Don’t like this!
bsky.app/profile/capi...
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:29:19.660Z#
eyebrows raising so so high bsky.app/profile/capi...
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:30:13.619Z#
somehow most normal people do not spend a lot of their time deeply contemplating statutory rape laws
bsky.app/profile/capi...
Captain Hurley 🇺🇦 🇵🇸🏳️⚧️🇪🇺@zoonie.bsky.social·2026-09-28T19:33:43.373Z#
She's basically talking gibberish
Bob @bumbledan.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:36:17.035Z#
That person should be in a cage.
Keira Havens@highcountryrose.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:04:47.675Z#
This will provide context :( x.com/Aella_Girl/s...
Craig Ganzer@eggczar.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:39:13.654Z#
"kids often'consent' to sexual experiences with pedophiles because they're kids who don't know better; the bad thing here is the intense betrayal"
I dunno man I think the bad thing here is raping kids
@n0nym0us.bsky.social·2026-09-28T18:07:40.024Z#
Scratch a Libertarian, find a pedophile who urgently wants to inform you it's actually ephebephilia.
Graham Marbles@grahammarbles.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:32:30.851Z#
I have never not finished reading something so fast in my LIFE
Lava monster@lavamonster.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:51:31.242Z#
All of the grossest stereotypes about right-wing libertarians are more or less completely correct, aren’t they?
@haxdfg.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:32:40.635Z#
I guess I just don’t think about consent very much because it’s never a question?????
Spending more than 30s think about “what is consent”: 🚩🚩🚩🚩
🛋️🥔♨️@rachelbulatovich.ca·2026-09-27T21:35:34.535Z#
Genuinely wanna frow up now :(((((((
. . . Whippets@crestwood.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:33:39.771Z#
This is not the person you put in charge of the orgy.
This is the person who was banned from the orgy.
A Frogs Gent@frogsgent.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:50:38.837Z#
........fucking *what*?
Dr Erika’s (spookily) Online, PhD@erikas.online·2026-09-27T23:18:19.322Z#
ONCE AGAIN SHE IS SO CLOSE TO GETTING IT
(also she's just wrong about enthusiastic consent)
Dr Erika’s (spookily) Online, PhD@erikas.online·2026-09-27T23:23:31.259Z#
and importantly, this is why Sex Work is Work! and it shouldn't matter if you're "enlightened" or "into it." It's because yes all the situations where we give up liberty to labor for money are fundamentally fucked up! Not because sex is special and different somehow.
Timb🎃🎃 Wilson@wilsonti7.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:26:12.332Z#
When I was a grad student at MIT, at some point one of my profs and I were walking over to LCS (Laboratory for Computer Science), and he referred to “those horny CS guys” over there. He was pissed about how they treated the few women there. These creeps have been around a long time I’m afraid
Timb🎃🎃 Wilson@wilsonti7.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:26:58.859Z#
Late 80s, early 90s times
@howlingwolfmohegan.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:23:28.757Z#
“It was a joke” — ancient line stepper proverb
Fey (they/them)@varric-fan69.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:29:06.613Z#
I feel like this woman is almost certainly carrying around a ton of trauma and is enthusiastically spreading it around
¯\_(ツ)_/¯@goatsfoot.bsky.social·2026-10-05T11:26:11.265Z#
Now THAT is deeply old-fashioned... 𝒚𝒂𝒚.
Kaitlyn the Strange@omendreamer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:29:39.053Z#
Playboy has a fairly extensive article about Aella's upbringing and dances around admitting she groomed her sisters into camming.
www.playboy.com/read/lifesty...
Virginia S. O'Possum, but scary@virginiaopossum.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:22:54.872Z#
Just to confirm: was a young woman in 1970s. Hated being catcalled then; my woman and girl friends hated it, too. The older women I asked hated it. I doubt Aella asked anybody over 30 about what women "used to" like.
Carlana@carlana.net·2026-09-27T22:57:58.094Z#
There’s a bit on I Love Lucy where they’re on a train and Lucy is worried someone is a “masher” (ie a groper) and Ricky just laughs her off. Women have always hated that shit, and men have always laughed at it!
Gruntled old man@boulderguy.bsky.social·2026-09-29T15:54:13.454Z#
Women used to have specialized weapons for this
@jig.bsky.social·2026-09-28T05:14:52.976Z#
rule of goats.
Sam@spratt.bsky.social·2026-09-29T14:53:50.964Z#
"i saw some study" mmmm now that's pure uncut Rationalism (TM)
Rich Swinton@ricosuavejd.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:14:07.464Z#
She's such an idiot she can't figure out why women don't like cat calling?
Because it's gross and creepy and uncalled for.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯@goatsfoot.bsky.social·2026-10-05T11:18:57.594Z#
I'm much older than this berk and neither I nor any of my peers ever experienced catcalling as a compliment. It was always associated with aggressive creepy men (and the implication that you maybe weren't modest enough / out at the wrong time/place / men gonna be men so protect yourself ladies!)
¯\_(ツ)_/¯@goatsfoot.bsky.social·2026-10-05T11:21:54.921Z#
My mother did insist to me that catcalling was a compliment, as was the time she was felt up by a hairdresser while obviously traumatised by it, and defending my DV perpetrator father, her sisters' various DV perpetrating husbands, etc, & bitterly blaming women. Denial made her feel better I guess.
capitolhunters@capitolhunters.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:41:05.936Z#
Just search Twitter on Aella_Girl and "consent" and you get.. a lot. 1/
x.com/Aella_Girl/s...
capitolhunters@capitolhunters.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:42:29.993Z#
Here's the rest of that 2021 thread. 2/
capitolhunters@capitolhunters.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:43:50.005Z#
More Aella complaining about statutory rape laws (why shouldn't teens be allowed to consent to sex with adults?) 3/
x.com/Aella_Girl/s...
capitolhunters@capitolhunters.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:48:13.758Z#
More from the Sept 25, 2019 conversation
x.com/Aella_Girl/s...
jadehawk "FREE ŁINK"@jadehawk.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:36:18.823Z#
absolutely bloodcurdling that such a basic fucking concept is utterly beyond her. of course ability to consent is severely affected by things external to the person! a gun to my head is external! it affects if what i'm doing is meaningfully consent! regardless what i'm forced to "consent" to!
Snowman Crossing@snowmancrossing.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:41:44.095Z#
It kind of rocks to analyze laws as if you're the first person to consider it with any kind of nuance. Libertarians love to do this. Drunk driving a crime? What about people who handle their liquor better? Statutory rape? What if both parties are minors?
Diamond Life@diamondlifeca.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:22:06.970Z#
Is she besties with Alan Dershowitz?!
Jennet Jourdemayne@wistfulwitness.bsky.social·2026-09-28T18:59:17.876Z#
Is she secretly Alan Dershowitz in deep cover? Woof.
Dara Moskowitz Grumdahl@deardara.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:34:47.058Z#
ah, conventional human morality, where stealing a nuke is different from stealing a burger, completely extraneous facts to the acts of the robber! and a burger of cow is adjudged different from a burger of ground human infant! It is only I, megamind, who
@fortysixpercent.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:32:44.247Z#
“You say it’s important to have consent.… but you support taxes? 🧐”
Pokin@pokinpotentialppl.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:26:48.849Z#
How in HELL does thinking about consent blur what’s “actually” happening?
[rhetorical, just venting]
ellie nash🏳️⚧️@elizabethnash.bsky.social·2026-09-28T04:20:03.757Z#
"if bestiality is wrong, what about artificial insemination?"
you're so right, that's why we should—
"legalize bestiality!"
jadehawk "FREE ŁINK"@jadehawk.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:30:26.395Z#
"only important for your body, not your livelihood or property"
i mean, no it tends to also be important there; BUT your body is literally you. it's not something you own that is separate. there should in fact be qualitatively different rules about qualitatively different things! jfc
jadehawk "FREE ŁINK"@jadehawk.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:31:37.202Z#
"must be verbal to count"
no you can use sign language if you feel like it. what it must be is unambiguous, which body language simply is not.
(aaaaaAaAaAAAAAAaaaAAAAA)
Barrista@onbluskysku.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:44:59.048Z#
It’s also not even true? If two people with a rapport use body language to express physical intimacy in a non-coercive context, both fall asleep, and then both wake up the next day without issue,it would be nonsense to say both people have committed criminal activity as if they got in a street brawl
Dustin@dustinn.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:57:36.002Z#
so much of this is downstream of treating human society as a logic problem to be solved. Oh, the way we treat teenage consent is different if the partner is an adult? Ok? Why should it be perfectly consistent?
@n0nym0us.bsky.social·2026-09-28T18:01:23.774Z#
Trying to communicate the concept of an asymmetric relationship to these people is exhausting.
Skeets McGee@emmreef.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:33:52.544Z#
capitolhunters@capitolhunters.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:59:53.320Z#
some are already calling her the Ghislaine Maxwell of Silicon Valley
Ben Munson@munson.land·2026-09-27T21:24:26.030Z#
“Why are people not me?”
keri@keristars.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:33:42.100Z#
ohh, yeah, that March 2020 is extremely fundy-bias.
(and a very relevant part of Dr Eleanor Janega's book about medieval women, when it was an "of course" thing that women were the hornier, sex-obsessed ones, not men)
keri@keristars.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:37:31.350Z#
actually, the consent stuff is pretty fundy, too. children as property/obedience to elders/any sin is as mortal as the worst sins
dkhunter, Crawling Chaos, Reluctant 🇨🇦 Nationalist@dkhunter.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:12:46.290Z#
Disparaging the use of the term 'survivors' to describe rape victims is maybe the most offensive thing I've ever seen Aella say, and it's not exactly a short list.
Bonus awful points for trying to cloak it in this breezy 'I'm just ceaselessly curious' sort of way.
Pufferfish 🇪🇺@culturesurfer.eurosky.social·2026-09-27T21:10:43.095Z#
Survivors in this context means, that they did not kill themsleves yet. Aella does not see this.
Fey (they/them)@varric-fan69.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:22:51.401Z#
I thought she was an ai sex bot program thing for awhile
Barrista@onbluskysku.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:41:38.867Z#
I have no reason to think this is in fact the case but this reads very heavily like a victim of statutory rape or similar activity rationalizing not being a victim of abuse
Fey (they/them)@varric-fan69.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:27:09.785Z#
Probable
HandsomeHag@handsomehag.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:23:49.681Z#
Enemy of women. That's what she is.
Jess-Icabod Zellers@stellagarp.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:24:08.955Z#
All of this is revolting, but that jab at survivors is particularly loathsome. Wholesale dismissal of the trauma and lasting (sometimes fatal) impact of sexual violence.
jordie3000@jordie3000.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:02:56.933Z#
“surprised that there is so little rape” GIRL WAT
Bryan (they/them)@chaosgreml.in·2026-09-28T06:02:22.493Z#
The FUCK??? This is actually unhinged. This is TERRIFYING.
Michele Bissacco 🇺🇦 🇵🇸@micbi.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:40:11.973Z#
I wouldn't touch her CNC views with a 10 feet pole, but that seems just her super weird way to point out murican laws around consent are based on puritanism (see also the drinking age) rather than any kind of psychological insight about understanding and power like happen in most european countries.
Ivy is Beautiful and Talented@poisonivy.bsky.social·2026-09-28T02:20:34.729Z#
my apologies for what is inevitably TMI but she invited a minor to her poop party and also has said it's regrettable society is structured in a 'minor excluding way'
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-29T15:35:00.297Z#
NOOOOO
kirsten@kirstenwins.bsky.social·2026-09-28T02:59:14.316Z#
she what a who to her huh?
Jean-Michel Deruty@jmderuty.stormancer.com·2026-09-28T17:12:28.072Z#
Big "Bad things are happening anyway so why should we care" energy.
Kristina of ⭐️⭐️@maytagsmom.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:46:11.526Z#
GROSS 🤮
Dr Erika’s (spookily) Online, PhD@erikas.online·2026-09-27T23:12:47.335Z#
The annoying thing is that she's so close to getting it, she's making a real point about children's rights, she's just not right for the reasons she THINKS she's right 😭
