Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T19:33:13.006Z
Regarding the Slutcon ethos….yikes: bsky.app/profile/pois...

Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T20:01:51.843Z#
Meanwhile in Silicon Valley AI land: bsky.app/profile/axio...
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T20:37:38.691Z#
Here’s an account of Slutcon in Slate from 2025: slate.com/life/2025/12...
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T20:40:00.460Z#
An interesting comment in a recent Reddit thread about the “AI sex cult” and Slutcon: www.reddit.com/r/SFbitchesw...
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:08:38.959Z#
Here’s a sampling of what Aella, a key organizer of Slutcon and a fixture of the rationalist/AI safety social scene, has said previously on Twitter about rape, teenagers and consent, and power imbalances in sexual situations:
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:16:35.644Z#
don’t like that about cat-calling! also she claims the “sister on only fans” thing was a prank but like, that’s a weird prank, dude
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T21:26:41.939Z#
More detailed allegations from this recent Reddit thread about consensual non-consent sex events held by certain people in the aforementioned Silicon Valley AI safety social circles: www.reddit.com/r/SFbitchesw...
@howlingwolfmohegan.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:23:28.757Z#
“It was a joke” — ancient line stepper proverb
Fey (they/them)@varric-fan69.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:29:06.613Z#
I feel like this woman is almost certainly carrying around a ton of trauma and is enthusiastically spreading it around
Kaitlyn the Strange@omendreamer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:29:39.053Z#
Playboy has a fairly extensive article about Aella's upbringing and dances around admitting she groomed her sisters into camming. www.playboy.com/read/lifesty...
Virginia S. O'Possum, but scary@virginiaopossum.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:22:54.872Z#
Just to confirm: was a young woman in 1970s. Hated being catcalled then; my woman and girl friends hated it, too. The older women I asked hated it. I doubt Aella asked anybody over 30 about what women "used to" like.
@jig.bsky.social·2026-09-28T05:14:52.976Z#
rule of goats.
Sam@spratt.bsky.social·2026-09-29T14:53:50.964Z#
"i saw some study" mmmm now that's pure uncut Rationalism (TM)
Rich Swinton@ricosuavejd.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:14:07.464Z#
She's such an idiot she can't figure out why women don't like cat calling? Because it's gross and creepy and uncalled for.
capitolhunters@capitolhunters.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:41:05.936Z#
Just search Twitter on Aella_Girl and "consent" and you get.. a lot. 1/ x.com/Aella_Girl/s...
Ben Munson@munson.land·2026-09-27T21:24:26.030Z#
“Why are people not me?”
keri@keristars.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:33:42.100Z#
ohh, yeah, that March 2020 is extremely fundy-bias. (and a very relevant part of Dr Eleanor Janega's book about medieval women, when it was an "of course" thing that women were the hornier, sex-obsessed ones, not men)
keri@keristars.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:37:31.350Z#
actually, the consent stuff is pretty fundy, too. children as property/obedience to elders/any sin is as mortal as the worst sins
dkhunter, Crawling Chaos, Reluctant 🇨🇦 Nationalist@dkhunter.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:12:46.290Z#
Disparaging the use of the term 'survivors' to describe rape victims is maybe the most offensive thing I've ever seen Aella say, and it's not exactly a short list. Bonus awful points for trying to cloak it in this breezy 'I'm just ceaselessly curious' sort of way.
Pufferfish 🇪🇺@culturesurfer.eurosky.social·2026-09-27T21:10:43.095Z#
Survivors in this context means, that they did not kill themsleves yet. Aella does not see this.
Fey (they/them)@varric-fan69.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:22:51.401Z#
I thought she was an ai sex bot program thing for awhile
Barrista@onbluskysku.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:41:38.867Z#
I have no reason to think this is in fact the case but this reads very heavily like a victim of statutory rape or similar activity rationalizing not being a victim of abuse
Fey (they/them)@varric-fan69.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:27:09.785Z#
Probable
HandsomeHag@handsomehag.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:23:49.681Z#
Enemy of women. That's what she is.
Jess-Icabod Zellers@stellagarp.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:24:08.955Z#
All of this is revolting, but that jab at survivors is particularly loathsome. Wholesale dismissal of the trauma and lasting (sometimes fatal) impact of sexual violence.
jordie3000@jordie3000.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:02:56.933Z#
“surprised that there is so little rape” GIRL WAT
Bryan (they/them)@chaosgreml.in·2026-09-28T06:02:22.493Z#
The FUCK??? This is actually unhinged. This is TERRIFYING.
Michele Bissacco 🇺🇦 🇵🇸@micbi.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:40:11.973Z#
I wouldn't touch her CNC views with a 10 feet pole, but that seems just her super weird way to point out murican laws around consent are based on puritanism (see also the drinking age) rather than any kind of psychological insight about understanding and power like happen in most european countries.
Ivy is Beautiful and Talented@poisonivy.bsky.social·2026-09-28T02:20:34.729Z#
my apologies for what is inevitably TMI but she invited a minor to her poop party and also has said it's regrettable society is structured in a 'minor excluding way'
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-29T15:35:00.297Z#
NOOOOO
kirsten@kirstenwins.bsky.social·2026-09-28T02:59:14.316Z#
she what a who to her huh?
Jean-Michel Deruty@jmderuty.stormancer.com·2026-09-28T17:12:28.072Z#
Big "Bad things are happening anyway so why should we care" energy.
Kristina of ⭐️⭐️@maytagsmom.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:46:11.526Z#
GROSS 🤮
Dr Erika’s (spookily) Online, PhD@erikas.online·2026-09-27T23:12:47.335Z#
The annoying thing is that she's so close to getting it, she's making a real point about children's rights, she's just not right for the reasons she THINKS she's right 😭
Coco the Nerd@coccoside.bsky.social·2026-09-29T00:13:25.681Z#
The problem is that Aella has stated she is SPECIFICALLY looking for men with this type of background so they absolutely would welcome that guy with open arms.
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-29T14:37:31.095Z#
well yeah I felt that was really obvious tbh
Scott@smadin.net·2026-09-27T20:41:58.765Z#
Jesus christ
Flock-o'-Lantern@buckrawheat.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:56:50.462Z#
gun
Ivy is Beautiful and Talented@poisonivy.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:41:35.504Z#
yep i know the person in question and i've seen what their 'public' doc is but not the private one
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T20:41:54.596Z#
oh god that’s upsetting
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T20:54:41.490Z#
yikes yikes yikes yikes
Jade Fortunato@jadedfortunato.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:49:14.858Z#
Weeeee
Sagittarius A*@sagastar.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:54:04.479Z#
good fuckin god how does this get worse every time i learn something new
Firthermor@firthermor.bsky.social·2026-09-28T22:56:59.231Z#
Has the curve even become shallower yet?
CarpeNoctem1200@carpenoctem1200.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:10:40.995Z#
Why do they call it slutcon when it's in fact a creep-a-palooza?
Orc@pell.portland.or.us·2026-09-27T21:15:14.279Z#
"Rapefest" didn't poll well.
CarpeNoctem1200@carpenoctem1200.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:18:22.145Z#
They might have wanted to go with it, but some lawyers probably told them to ditch it for reasons of probable deniability...
アメリカ大失敗 (America’s#1Failure)🫡🖕@shamr0cker.bsky.social·2026-09-28T16:59:06.913Z#
The wrong dudes read and took all the wrong lessons from, ‘The Ethical Slut”
Sonny Drysdale @sonnydrysdale.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:44:30.667Z#
Thank you, Luke Winkie.
Joe@twitskeptic.sirvin.com·2026-09-27T20:27:17.463Z#
No Slutcon for Amodei unless he calls it Super Intelligence
GPT-Ern Malley@denam.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:03:06.653Z#
Is Aella organizing it
Havelock Vetinari@havelockvetinari.bsky.social·2026-09-28T06:25:21.725Z#
They'll compare orgy notes and rate the fuckability of WH staffers.
A Frogs Gent@frogsgent.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:48:29.008Z#
I am now remembering Aella's "women evolved to be low status" article and becoming increasingly concerned.
Jennie Dusheck@solenodon.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:41:06.516Z#
Emily Chang talked about the sex parties and pressure to attend in her 2018 book Brotopia. She mentioned a San Francisco party where pills with the Tesla logo were offered.
Kat Z but spooky or something@katzindc.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:44:00.797Z#
Do you recommend that book?
Jennie Dusheck@solenodon.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:01:20.917Z#
I do. But bear in mind it's eight years old and a lot of the focus is on sexism & misogyny in the venture capital world, not AI or EA.
Kat Z but spooky or something@katzindc.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:04:04.654Z#
Got it, thanks! I partly got excited because it looks like it’s available on Libby now. But I’m always up for an interesting read.
Jennie Dusheck@solenodon.bsky.social·2026-09-27T21:08:30.680Z#
I read it when it came out and definitely found it interesting!
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T19:56:50.308Z#
yes! I do recommend, and have a signed copy!
Hartford: New England's Rising Star!@corncobbler.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:39:33.835Z#
Are they all bad at sex? Is that the common thing?
Seth Maggard@zenliminal.bsky.social·2026-09-29T15:03:32.598Z#
Yuck, ick, ewww...
Jennet Jourdemayne@wistfulwitness.bsky.social·2026-09-28T18:44:03.357Z#
This woman is bad for other women. Period. End of story. And I do not care in the slightest how “not sexy” that assessment is.
Misandrosaurus Hex@bexone.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:26:16.332Z#
Yikesy McYikeserton
Rabbit Hole Studios@jenpallante.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:40:43.448Z#
"Safety is unsexy" Only for people who need women to not be safe to feel arousal. Which sounds like the organizers here.
Sock Puppet Pundit@sockpuppetpundit.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:44:46.059Z#
"Don't worry your pretty little head about safety."
Otto von Biz Markie@donachaidh.bsky.social·2026-09-28T17:50:57.316Z#
what the ACTUAL fuck (no pun intended)
Possible Cabbage 🟢@possiblecabbage.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:29:09.858Z#
Like my desire to not have sex is deeply unsexy for entirely understandable reasons.
Tortoiseshel@tortoiseshel.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:36:55.217Z#
Z.V. Anjali@zvanjali.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:34:39.114Z#
Any event that has an ethos of "most women don't know what they want" is going to be a rape-fest.
Bryan (they/them)@chaosgreml.in·2026-09-28T05:56:07.266Z#
Jesus Christ this is so skin-crawlingly horrible
spooky Deirdre Connolly¹ ² at a distance@durumcrustulum.com·2026-09-27T21:25:16.613Z#
what the fuck
brad@bradiscranky.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:52:01.266Z#
that subtext of “you exist for men” really ain’t very subtextual
It's a Pip!@nopipbutcpip.bsky.social·2026-09-28T05:03:45.118Z#
...well. that just turned my stomach. Wow. People actually wrote those words and put them out into the world in public, huh?
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:34:11.997Z#
AHHHHHH
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T19:34:34.283Z#
it sucks SO BAD
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:37:30.265Z#
"safety....is deeply unsexy" alright where's this person at, I just wanna talk
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T19:39:01.468Z#
maybe for YOU and maybe you should discuss that in THERAPY
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:40:51.898Z#
hahahah seriously