It’s quite doable. One just has to be honest, and a bit vulnerable.
One of the more wholesome things about KinkdotCom is that they make a point of showing the consent before scenes. “What are your hard noes, what are your soft noes; the safe word for “too much” the safe word for ALL STOP”
They do it to model safer kink for their audience.
It can be done; people can choose to treat each other as beings with equivalent agency.
TKarney@pecunium.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:40:35.904Z#