Baker🇺🇦🌻@bakerblue.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:10:38.893Z#
True enough..
also they're *literally* surrounded by sex parties! Folsom and The Citadel are literally right there!
Colin Toal 🇨🇦🇮🇪@colintoal.bsky.social·2026-09-27T23:34:42.067Z#
This creepy weird shit is not about sex. It's about power. The whole thing is nerd reich power games.
Wicked Grounds@wickedgrounds.bsky.social·2026-09-28T19:11:05.755Z#
THIS.
If you know Wicked Grounds, you'll know that we're big fans of exploring "sluttiness" and kink safely.
Being pressured to explore by colleagues is the opposite of consent culture. Period. Exclamation point.
Wicked Grounds@wickedgrounds.bsky.social·2026-09-28T19:09:44.171Z#
The Citadel specifically hasn't existed in years, but you're right that there are MANY safe places to explore this stuff, and there is absolutely no reason to align sex parties with an entire industry's networking opportunities.
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-28T19:23:41.570Z#
eep! yeah, shows how long I've been out of the SF scene, stopped living in SF Bay in 2009 lol, although I did visit from time to time
@evilfred.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:28:46.247Z#
that's the craziest part. the parallel separate worlds of gay and straight SF are wild.