Gabriel S. Pumpkins 🎃: "the pressure you put on a conversation by treating it as a seduction tactic. it's not enough to have a nice interaction with someone you met, it has to be SO NICE and they have to be SO IMPRESSED that they want to see more of you & maybe even get in your pants. a friendly chat is treated as failure." / Blueviewer

Gabriel S. Pumpkins 🎃@gsjphd.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:46:20.607Z

the pressure you put on a conversation by treating it as a seduction tactic. it's not enough to have a nice interaction with someone you met, it has to be SO NICE and they have to be SO IMPRESSED that they want to see more of you & maybe even get in your pants. a friendly chat is treated as failure.

Gabriel S. Pumpkins 🎃@gsjphd.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:49:10.218Z #

if you treat every conversation with any woman you meet in a social setting like it's a job interview for the position of Boyfriend, you're always gonna be stressed out. job interviews suck.

Gabriel S. Pumpkins 🎃@gsjphd.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:52:49.057Z #

anyway if you really want to learn how to flirt you don't NEED to go to a convention full of tech perverts. you just gotta read @deathbulge.bsky.social