folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:22:50.163Z
...jesusfuckign... HAVE NONE OF THESE PEOPLE HEARD OF FUCKING NEGOTIATIONS AAAAAARGHHHHH
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folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:22:59.782Z#
Faine I am So Fucking Mad
folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:24:02.672Z#
If you're gonna do a fucking one-on-one workshop on gaslighting kink, you make it VERY clear what you're offering, make DAMN sure the person you're offering it to knows what they're getting into, and you VERY CLEARLY SIGNPOST when it's gonna start and when it's gonna end
folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:24:28.057Z#
AND THAT'S NOT EVEN GETTING INTO THE OTHER ABSOLUTE BARE MINIMUMS LIKE SAFEWORDS AND AFTERCARE JESUS FUCKING AAAAARGHHH
REwadent Evil@ewacat.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:25:22.974Z#
It's just not actual kink that's the thing, it's using it as an excuse to be horrendous
folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:25:53.061Z#
yeah no I'm well aware and I'm deeply pissed
REwadent Evil@ewacat.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:32:12.843Z#
Yeah no wonder, it's genuinely awful
Mind Frighten 馃巸@porgus.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:24:02.539Z#
they probably just don't care.
folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:25:29.000Z#
yeah no that's the conclusion I'm drawing here too I'm just very fucking deeply angered on a personal level since I have just spent the last four months doing kink safety work in the bsky community I run in this shit pisses me off so much
folk tune stan account 馃幓@folktunes.bsky.social路2026-09-27T19:26:59.560Z#
There are ways to do this risk-aware and consensually, to make sure everyone is as safe as possible and knows what they're getting into. This is. Not that. Quite possibly *on purpose*.