Andromeda Yelton@thatandromeda.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:46:53.630Z
Step 1: decide we are at a status level where all women must be socially confident and normatively hot Step 2: few of the AFAB people who have been techies forever go to your parties Step 3: see, women just aren’t interested in/good at tech
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Andromeda Yelton@thatandromeda.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:55:30.794Z#
and I mean goodness knows my 20s were characterized by all the nerds of all genders I knew being at freaky sex parties they didn't invite me to because it was so obviously not my scene 😂 but it seemed that like...more consent and less normativity were involved
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T19:00:07.873Z#
Yeah, I know many people who are into that stuff who aren’t weird creeps about it!
Coureur de FemboOoo[Big Bad Bæddel Borg]🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🐔@droctorock.northsky.social·2026-09-27T19:02:31.807Z#
it's actually not that hard! they're just (deliberately?) doing it very wrong!
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T18:51:01.937Z#
it’s fucking evil shit
jadelennox@jadelennox.bsky.social·2026-09-27T20:34:24.801Z#
oh god I'm having flashbacks. luckily the east coast tech industry mostly has a solid "appropriate for work" culture these days especially outside of finance, and yet, still having flashbacks.
Coureur de FemboOoo[Big Bad Bæddel Borg]🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🐔@droctorock.northsky.social·2026-09-27T22:25:53.298Z#
🫂