brad@bradiscranky.bsky.social·2026-09-27T22:37:34.016Z
submissive does not mean weak, goddammit and i'm not the least bit sub

rahaeli@rahaeli.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:13:24.538Z#
yeah, like, as someone who has seen A LOT of how this is actually done ethically and how many, many failure modes there are, I just want to scream endlessly
brad@bradiscranky.bsky.social·2026-09-28T01:06:22.872Z#
yeah. i have even more experience in hallucinogens than i do kink and knowing the kind of power i have had combining those two is just manson shit in the wrong hands, and these seem like the wrong hands. just early in that arc
Buttadeus@thewanderingjew.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:16:04.416Z#
It’s all something that while it could be done well in THEORY, it is basically impossible in practice
Buttadeus@thewanderingjew.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:16:31.680Z#
In theory communism is a good idea
Robert Black@hurricanexyz.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:16:44.463Z#
This is not actually true
Robert Black@hurricanexyz.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:18:01.774Z#
(I think the problem with speculating about "in theory" re: weird sex stuff is that people's own attitudes about what they want or are comfortable with are SO pervasively socially constructed. We could live in a world where everyone felt comfortable walking around naked all the time!)
Robert Black@hurricanexyz.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:19:25.816Z#
(THAT BEING SAID don't think I don't have the germ of an essay knocking around my head trying to theorycraft a new liberal sexual mores/ethics from first principles 😅)
Buttadeus@thewanderingjew.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:19:59.486Z#
Oh yeah it’s not the specifics of the sexual behavior at all, it’s just that there are too many factors
Buttadeus@thewanderingjew.bsky.social·2026-09-28T00:18:35.646Z#
youtu.be/lgi1LFVWurg?... Yeah but