Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:09:35.525Z
how are these companies not absolutely *drowning* in sexual harassment lawsuits

Which Witch R U 🏳️‍🌈@which-witch-ru.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:04:38.055Z#
Because of retaliation. If they come forward, they’ll likely never work in the industry again. They’ll be seen as killjoys and “difficult to work with.” Which sucks because anyone who’s worked in tech knows women objectively perform better despite that CONSTANT harassment.
Melanie@passifloraresearch.com·2026-09-27T19:38:29.909Z#
I have thoughts on that.
@privateideation.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:56:06.828Z#
Because they've created a pass through where the parties are done by people in the same social ecosystem but who are not employees. If you filter at the parties before anyone gets employed you control for harassment lawsuits because the people who would report harassment never get employed.
Madame Hardy@madamehardy.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:38:13.158Z#
Because filing a lawsuit would get you ostracized by the community, which means not just your friends but your potential employers.
Thomas Neville@goobermunch.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:56:35.886Z#
NDAs (though the Speak Out Act limits the use of pre-dispute agreements in harassment cases); mandatory arbitration agreements (so the actual claims brought never see the light of day); and punitive confidentiality & nondisparagement clauses in settlement agreements (which bypass the Speak Out Act).
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T18:02:04.728Z#
tbqh I'm amazed no one has attempted civil RICO and sex trafficking suit against lightcone/lighthaven/miri
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T18:05:04.437Z#
me too
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T18:05:47.890Z#
the actual reason is no one has the money or the wherewithal to take them on and burn all their bridges
Melanie@passifloraresearch.com·2026-09-27T19:45:49.451Z#
It’s also hard to find private attorneys willing to go up against the firms they hire. That’s one reason why those firms didn’t want an effective state civil rights agency that would do the work.
Thomas Neville@goobermunch.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:50:15.022Z#
That’s hard for me to understand. I like fighting with big firm lawyers.
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T19:47:40.071Z#
I tagged KUSK because they know civil RICO very well and also are unfraid to go after abusers, and know the sex trafficking laws well, see pavlovich v gaiman
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T18:08:41.398Z#
And this situation will only become even worse once they IPO
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T18:09:29.945Z#
I just am so sad for all of the normie friends I have at A\ who want nothing to do with this
Connor @merchantofvice.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:57:11.120Z#
We need a vengeful khan to take over in 2 years. Maybe Lina gets some horses and light Calvary this time
Kathryn Tewson@kathryntewson.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:27:54.690Z#
Personal injury damages don't count for RICO
Dillon "Back to making games again"@6sidedgames.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:29:08.073Z#
That's a hell of a sentence.
Kathryn Tewson@kathryntewson.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:31:40.972Z#
Suuuuure is
Coba Weel 🏳️‍⚧️@weel.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:46:55.947Z#
Relatedly, the clauses in employment exit agreements that ban you from disclosing the contents of employment exit agreements should be illegal. I refuse to sign anyway but some of the stuff I’ve seen is pretty egregious.
president, Spreadsheet Persons Local 153@werrrp.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:57:21.238Z#
California courts have come through for us in this general domain before, let's see them do it again
Thomas Neville@goobermunch.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:01:24.908Z#
Fingers crossed. But it’s always better to be the second person across those bridges.
Coba Weel 🏳️‍⚧️@weel.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:03:47.865Z#
California actually has a functional legislature, just saying.
Coba Weel 🏳️‍⚧️@weel.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:03:00.957Z#
I think legislation would be easier than relying on a sacrificial guinea pig defendant though?
Dillon "Back to making games again"@6sidedgames.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:30:28.894Z#
I'll quote the now-gone popehat. It's never RICO. I'm sure the actual lawyers or adjacent peeps can explain why, but IANAL, so I can't do it.
Madame Hardy@madamehardy.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:26:34.718Z#
What? What happened to Popehat?
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T19:27:28.301Z#
banned
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T19:27:42.859Z#
reinstated after the suspension but he resolved to not come back
Julia Is Waving, Not Drowning@booktweeting.bsky.social·2026-09-27T19:28:48.438Z#
he angryposted something that the shitty mods chose to interpret as a threat of bodily harm, which it was not
Nire Bryce@nirebryce.breadthcharge.net·2026-09-27T18:42:03.213Z#
wonder how their taxes look
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T18:42:44.645Z#
fun facts, well, SE Gyges's post is down, but it makes accusations of personal enrichment and money laundering
Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com·2026-09-27T18:43:03.090Z#
but a lot of the money for this flows through various 501(c)3s including Lightcone and MIRI
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:03:36.446Z#
So...weaponizing the law against victims, cool cool cool
Thomas Neville@goobermunch.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:37:56.712Z#
Mandatory arbitration in consumer contracts and employment agreements should be illegal.
Ethan@strangebirds.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:10:51.022Z#
I wonder how much VC funding is allocated to settlements…
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:12:29.973Z#
honestly a great thread for an enterprising tech investigative journalist to pull
Whip Clyburn Dem - MEDICAID HOVER 👻👻🎃@annaconda1.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:11:11.079Z#
Bc people want to believe
Nur Shahir, PhD (Hire me!)@gigiomics.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:38:41.049Z#
They have too much money because they've never had to pay Actual Taxes
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T17:10:49.953Z#
self selecting for meekness in hiring practices
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T17:55:12.815Z#
This is 100% the idea
@privateideation.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:58:55.622Z#
Theres also the not inconsiderable side effect that the person who is going to be most easily pilloried in the media and most likely to go to prison or be sued into usury here is Aella. She's essentially become Ghislaine Maxwell but with a paper trail and incorporation documents.
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T18:35:14.572Z#
i’m not even conspiracy pilled enough to think this is the goal but it’s definitely the result.
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T18:37:11.011Z#
It’s not a conspiracy, it’s just a bog standard thing sexist men have been doing to women in the workplace for ages.
Faine Greenwood@faineg.com·2026-09-27T18:37:59.808Z#
It’s “we will tolerate women in our workplace, but only if you’re not a uppity bitch who cramps our style”
@economymedicine.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:39:53.163Z#
These people must be made to suffer for their sins
yazikus@yazikus.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:47:06.723Z#
I had a knew a lady who had been made first female partner at her firm. The partner's lounge was male only, though. But - she would be allowed if she sat on the lap of one of the male partners.
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:38:47.615Z#
Launch them into the sun
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T18:46:42.862Z#
one thousand percent.
Whip Clyburn Dem - MEDICAID HOVER 👻👻🎃@annaconda1.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:11:29.950Z#
Only for the women tho!
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T17:12:53.779Z#
you’d be surprised! I think there is a different kind of complicity they groom in their cis male colleagues that also make fighting against this behavior a choice between agency and leaving the industry.
Whip Clyburn Dem - MEDICAID HOVER 👻👻🎃@annaconda1.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:14:53.592Z#
Like is penis rubbing frowned upon? No one knows
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T17:17:38.212Z#
predation sucks and victims absolutely shoulder the burden of proof and the costs of justice everywhere. I think its something about the failson caste culture inheritances prevalent in tech that make it super fucking pernicious in this industry though.
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T17:20:18.468Z#
Also, tech leaders using sexual positivity language and co-opting queer and diverse spaces to perpetuate abuse is just another aspect of how absolutely rotten the entire corporate world is right now.
Whip Clyburn Dem - MEDICAID HOVER 👻👻🎃@annaconda1.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:13:27.427Z#
That’s just regular life tho
Peter Swimm@peterswimm.com·2026-09-27T17:15:03.235Z#
ok but i’ve had lots of jobs, especially on the blue collar side that will not fuck with this behavior even in a cold calculated business way that is given free reign in the valley.
Mel Buer@melbuer.bsky.social·2026-09-27T17:11:44.791Z#
i think I just threw up
Gerard Cunningham@faduda.eurosky.social·2026-09-27T17:15:09.141Z#
NDAs mostly, I'd guess. That and never pick an argument with someone who buys judges by the barrel.
Bi King Gent 👑 💖💜💙@thesnarkygent.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:30:02.203Z#
Others noted both social/career consequences and stuff like NDAs, but as someone who got out of a totalizing cult: many of the victims are true believers in a "millennialist" framework that is effectively a secular religion. It is their whole world. It's so easy to rationalize the abuse you get.
Bi King Gent 👑 💖💜💙@thesnarkygent.bsky.social·2026-09-27T18:33:21.136Z#
To push back against this sort of stuff is to experience a kind of death of the self. You might lose everything: your friends and career, your money (if they sue you for breaching an NDA), but also *lose everything you lived for, lose the reason you get out of bed, lose why your life matters*.